Make it worth your investment?

At this very moment in my life, I have tried few investment either in terms of business or in term of emotion. There's investment that I planned so well and I foreseen the high return in long term, but it is inevitable that the hidden risk was never been taken into account.

Take example for a business venture I have made with a few friends and close family members, I have thought that I was so clever so unique so new to create something that will grow so fast that's unstoppable, but ain't I being over confident? It is in the human nature that we like to see the most positive outcome because it is so exciting and new to welcome what is happening around us. We never calculate the worst thing that can possibly go wrong with the plan until it happens.

Go the same with your emotion investment (let's call it EI so I don't have to type the whole word). I believe when you passed certain age limit say 30 and above? Your EI becomes rational and calculative. There's no lap of faith to fall on or benefit of the doubt that the person you love will turn into someone better than you expected. There's always a theory to accept the person you love the way they are and using encouragement plus positivity to push and grow with them.

Are we sure that the best way? Like really....???

Some took the efforts and the time to do just that but there's only so far once's tolerant can take so what happen when those time and effort didn't work? Do we just give up on them? Can we?

My new theory is this: if you calculate your EI by taking your financial responsibilities over your life span and it gives you more than 50% chance of happiness, take it! That's why wedding vow still work: I shall love you for rich or poor, in sickness...blah blah blah.... so before the death do us part you know you have 50% of happiness guaranteed in your EI account.  

Memories

The most fascinating about human is we are the creature that capable of create and capture memories in our mind like a frames picture. 

Everything that known to us from the moment we were born to the last breath we have is memories. Doesn't matter if there's no pictures taken or monument to remind us because deep inside our mind the memory of events of important person are all inside. Time to time we may forget that it ever happened but eventually we know it was there and it was real.

So if you ask me what the cruelest thing one can do to a human being? I say take away their most precious memory, the one that most treasure most precious, destroy it because when you have no memory then you have never live at all.

So build those memory of your own and remember it as long as you can, nothing is forever.

Don't mess with pregnant woman

If you been through pregnancy then you will understand when a woman is pregnant her hormones raises, all the five senses become as sensitive as time boom ticking. Her eyes is so shape it will radar where her love one is and come up with all possible mean to gather them close to her. Her tolerant level will only handle her own cloth detergent smell. Her taste will increase like a giant craving for immediate food to fill that huger! otherwise she will attack. Her touch = "Leave me the F alone" and her hearing will only be "you don't understand how I feel"

To sum it up if your wife is pregnant: here is the DON'T  and DO so you will survive the 9 months of your life in peace

DO - tell her that she's beautiful at least once a day
DON'T -tell her that she's lazy because she CAN! jack ass
DO - ask her how does she feels or if you can do anything to help her feel better
DON'T -try to hump her like a horny puppy every time you see her
DO -listen to whatever she has to say and give ensuring answer
DON'T - be a DICKHEAD she doesn't need to hear you whine about other woman who you just met spare the damn detail because at this point her confident level is at -100
DO -make her laugh at all cost because she appreciate it
DON'T - throw your PMS at her or in front of her because she is carrying extra 20 pounds in her belly and it can kill you!

Keep it claim....count 1-100 or just STFU!

The wonder's mind

Have you ever wonder what happen to the people you knew or shared partial of your life with? Is it true that the past help to shape the person you are today or is it just history? Can we learn anything from our history? Mistake? Alternative way to make life better?
I'm the person of the past, always wonder what happen to the Muslim twin kids who sat behind me during high school or my college art teacher who told me I could become a great artist.
I'm a big believer on past shaped the person you are today and I believe that everyone learn to raise above themselves seeking a better life in any form, in wealth, in health, in love, in friends or social status.
I mean no one want to stand as a loser forever right? The rich can become even richer so why don't the poor strive to be richest?
Someone told me that when I have the ability to choose my friends that I will only choose the one that benefit me to better myself. I see what that mean but I believe it comes with consequences. I'm now six months pregnant and soon to be a mother of a living person! So I start to wonder how much can I teach my kid to make his life memorable and learn from my mistake, can he??  

Discovery of Kickstarter

Mr. T has shown me recently the new way to see what entrepreneurs around the world started their business and it was Kickstarter. Some projects on this website (even I don't need it) I want it! It so creative check out the "Capture Camera Clip V2" and other projects it awesome!  

http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/97103764/capture-camera-clip-v2?ref=category